My Dear Sweet Baby Lesbian Sisters

Memorial Day has come to an end! The baby lesbians who invaded our lovely hamlet by the bay have now left and are nursing hangovers and tending to their fighting wounds. Commercial Street is being cleaned of paper cups, beer bottles and vomit. Seriously.

I just got home from yet another “Showgirls” and writing this blog for you. In regards to commerce, the business owners I talked to said the weekend went well for them.

The weekend was fun filled and wild with screaming lesbians and something new that I never saw. As throngs of women came to town Thursday afternoon, so did quite a few young gay boys. It was a very interesting mix and the two visiting groups seemed to cohabitate quite nicely. In fact, some of these young boys actually came with their lesbian sisters.

So with the excitement of the Memorial Day Weekend where do I begin? Lets start with Miss Richfield. We saw her Saturday night. This year her show is completely different than the usual. She has incorporated her gift of improvisation into her performance making it fresh and off the cuff. There is some repeat material, as she seems to always inject in the show, but most of it is new. Check her out. It is worth the ticket price.

My friends Laurie and Elaine were in a dreadful car accident heading here Thursday night. They were rear ended on Route 6 by a truck that must have been going close to 100 mph. Thank goodness they are OK. The car is completely totaled.

There was a nice ceremony today in front of town hall. Veterans spoke about those who passed before us. A band played patriotic songs.

Other happenings this weekend include the fact that I decided to delve into the scary subculture world of leather. I’m pretty vanilla and proud of it. However, “nothing ventured nothing gained, as long as it doesn’t hurt anyone,” is my motto for life. So my friend Rich, who is another equal gay conservative decided to try it with me. We went to MG Leather where my friend John hooked us up with some basic leather apparel. Mark guided us along as well so credit must be given.

I sported calf high black lace up leather boots, dark blue jeans, thick black belt, a strap that state troopers wear across their chest (I’m not sure what it is called) and a Tom of Finland t-shirt with a boot print on it. Needless to say I did get plenty of attention at The Paramount Vault at Large (music was freaking awesome! And I think I ended up on the box) then later at Purgatory (not my scene...I left early and went home). Throughout the night I ran into some clients and friends whose mouths dropped to the floor when they saw me. Overall it was pretty exciting. However, I am more of a poster vanilla leather guy than the hard core type.

Food wise… my friend John will be writing the restaurant critiques starting this week. We’re calling it "Table for Three." We hit up the Red Inn. On other nights Rich, Mark and I ate at The Post Office Café ... 5 monuments ...The Burger Queen, which is a burger shack ... 5 monuments. Café Heaven for breakfast ... 5 monuments. Bubulas for lunch ... 5 monuments.

Anyhow… summer has definitely started. The streets returned to a calm this evening shortly before Showgirls. Have a safe week and I’ll catch you later. Please take time this week to pause and remember your loved ones who have passed on before you. If you want to send me and email or wish that I post your response to my blog … email mike.dubour@verizon.net.

Wow, What A Week

Its Monday at midnight and after working all day (my first appointment was at 8AM! That’s just crazy!), driving down cape to a three hour board meeting for the AIDS Support Group after work, back up to Ptown to walk Pia, then to dinner and the first Showgirls of the season…I’m pooped, but want to write the blog. I hope you don’t mind no pictures.

First of all Showgirls was awesome. Mostly lip synching drag but, Ryan Landry was as smacked as ever. Aphrodite ruled the house with a vicious rendition of a house, disco, gossip tune. The queens were going crazy! But…Steamy Brown won the crown with a rap song, “Cappuccino.” If you don’t know, Steamy Brown is a local cutie smeared in chocolate (naked) topped with marshmallow fluff. Miss Richfield did a little bit from her show as well. Ryan Landry held 10 seconds of silence for “Dixie.” The whole room fell quiet in respect for our fallen friend. Great night, drinks were thrown, all went home with smiles.

News update. Jimmie’s Hideaway was vandalized this past week. Someone opened the grease traps, clogged the sinks and toilets and left the water running. Weird.

But what a week. Provincetown was invaded by single lesbians looking for that right match for Single Women Weekend and attendees to the Cabaret Fest. I wasn’t able to make it to any Cabaret Fest event nor was I able to attend any workshops for single women.

Season is now here. We’ve been flooded by young gay boys in their early 20’s. Pass the vapors….wow…I guess the shortage of visas made American gay boys flock here. Today the Eastern Europeans arrived for the summer. DAMN! They are so cute but mostly straight. Oh…this year Ptown was voted the number one gay travel destination by Out Magazine.

Here’s a restaurant review quickly before I head to bed…

I’ve eaten at Big Daddy’s Burritos yum. 5 monuments easily…

Bernard, Scott and I ate at The Mews Wednesday night. Flawless service by Loic. The apps and main course was absolutely delicious. 5 monuments.

John, Michael and I ate at Ross Grill Thursday and I went back with Rich and Mark on Friday. Flawlessly delicious. Salmon one night, Tuna the next..5 monuments again.

Rob, Mike, Mark Rich and I went to Lorraine’s Saturday night. I hadn’t been there in almost 5 years. We had a waiter who was four days old on the job so I forgive him for learning the ropes. The food was really good. I ordered scallops on rice and must say, they were the most succulent and tasty ones I’ve had so far. Besides the waiter learning his job, I must say it was a good dining experience. 5 monuments.

Scott, John, Barbara, Marguerite, Laura and Scott and baby had Sunday brunch at Fanizzi’s. Awesome buffet…best in town. Nice water view … literally on the water
5 monuments.

John, Mike and I have formed a Thursday dining out threesome (mind out of gutter). It’ll be just the three of us unless there is an out of town guest visitng. John has volunteered to write the critique. Part of our plan is to start at The Red Inn in the west end of town and work out way east.

Anyhow, short entry this week. Weather is warming up, the town is crowded with absolutely beautiful men. I’ve been here 5 years and this season there is electricity in the air…I’ll figure out what it is soon enough. And with that good night….the summer has begun!

Provincetown Loses a Legend

Sad news to report! Provincetown has lost one of its own. David Frederico, fondly known around town as Dixie, passed away suddenly and prematurely this past Sunday. You may know Dixie from his years as the fun and sassy waiter at The Post Office Café. Last year he worked at Bayside Betsy’s. He also ran for Selectmen a couple of times a few years back. He was narrowly defeated in both attempts. Always with a smile on his face, he would say “hi” to everyone he passed by. He was young and will be missed by all. I’ll write more if and when there is viewing information.

I feel weird writing about all of the past week’s activities in light of Dixie’s passing, so I’ll be quick about it.

Brad and I went to Cambridge to celebrate his 29th birthday! We stayed at The Hyatt Regency and had great views of the Charles River and Back Bay. Our trip started with a trip to The Museum of Science where we watched the Imax movie, Mummies. It was very interesting. Then we walked around Harvard Square, had the best hot chocolate I’ve ever had at L.A. Burdick’s Chocolate Café. Then we saw “Elections and Erections” at the Zero Arrow Theatre. Pieter-Dirk Uys was magnificent in his political satire regarding South African politics. Our evening ended at a truly great restaurant T.W. Food on Walden Street in Cambridge. The food was awesome! Everything was flawless from the quality of food to the service. If you are in Cambridge you may want to try this great eatery…617-864-4745. Sorry no website.

Back home in Provincetown, I went to see Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day at Whaler’s Wharf. The critics slammed it, but, it was a cute predictable love story with great costumes, acting and sets. Go see it. It is a feel good movie. Personally, it reminded me that I’ve lost love due to living in Ptown. Oh well. What the critics missed though, is the dark anticipation and undercurrent happening throughout the movie. See if you can pick up on it.

I also did my spring yard clean up. Rake, weed, prune, mulch, fertilize and mow. WHEW! Trips to Conwell ACE Hardware and Lands End True Value. Great weather for outside work but I missed opening night at Enzo’s…too tired from all the yard work. Brad did attend and said it was a lot of fun. Afterwards, we grabbed a couple slices at George’s Pizza. The pizza was good. Crisp and cheesy. Slices were heated up quickly. But the sourpusses on both the clerk’s and the cook’s face made me feel as if there was someone with a gun hiding under the counter forcing them to work. It’s a little unnerving. And it’s been that way for years! George’s gets 3.5 monuments and a tickle for the workers to make them smile.

Friday night I went to Mohegan Sun to see Kathy Griffin. Wow… she was really funny! We had great seats…fourth row center! We stayed overnight and had a wonderful dinner at Bamboo Shoots. I didn’t lose too much as I don’t gamble. In fact, I spent most of my time at the spa.

Saturday, John, Rich and I attended Kibbles and Skits at The Vixen, a fundraiser for CASAS - Carrie A. Seaman Animal Shelter. Local favorites performed on stage for about three hours in a variety/talent show. It was lots of fun! I won a raffle. The first time ever in my life…a $50 gift certificate to Toys of Eros. Please click on the link at the end of the blog to find out more about CASAS.

We took a break and had dinner at The Mayflower. Ok… here comes a review. The Mayflower is not my favorite restaurant and in the past, during my younger years, I would be embarrassed to be seen going in or out of the establishment. Frankly, now, I just don’t care. Surprisingly, the food was actually good. John and I spilt the Steamers as an appetizer. Rich would not have any. Most of the steamers were tasty…some were gritty as heck but I’m not really sure there is any control over that. I ordered the lasagna. It was very good. I’d get it again. We got rolls and salad with the meal. Price was VERY low. Service was excellent. We debated whether the waiter was gay or not. We never found out.. The atmosphere is pretty neat and is a throw back to 1947. You are right on Commercial Street and have a great view of passersby. The Mayflower gets 5 monuments and yes, I’ll go back.

Sunday morning Brad and I had breakfast at Connie’s Bakery. They are located right down the street from my house and the walk there was pleasant. We ordered breakfast sandwiches and coffee to go. The sandwich was delicious. I’ll get one again. Coffee was fresh and hot. Breakfast sandwiches are all served on freshly baked rolls. Yum! Great atmosphere. Great pastry. Great setting. 5 monuments

Sunday night I attended a donor appreciation party as part of my Board work for the AIDS Support Group of Cape Cod. I met a couple who recently moved from Manhattan and settled in Sandwich. Ed and Bill are their names and they told me stories about Provincetown and Fire Island in the 1960’s! I plan on getting together with these guys quite often this summer.

Finally, tonight I attended the Spring Fling event at The Crowne Pointe. The owners were gracious hosts, food was delicious and company friendly.

In closing, I would like to dedicate this blog entry to Dixie. May he rest in peace.

This week's links:

Carrie A. Seaman Animal Shelter www.casasanimalshelter.org

AIDS Support Group of Cape Cod www.asgcc.org